Thanks for your reply. I agree with not bringing it up, but shes been telling me about this divorce thats in the process for the last 7 months. Like some MLCers that have filed and had papers served right away, I havent seen anything. Almost every week, WITHOUT me bringning it up, she always throws it in my face. If shes SO unhappy and she claims that its been 20 years of misery with me, why not file? Is she using this as a way of control me?
And if you can just for clarification, during replay, do they really believe this fantasy that they are living? Is there ANY part of them that knows they are doing wrong?
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
