Kaffe, I agree that love is a choice and it's something you have to choose and demonstrate every day by your actions. I also spent months waiting for my W to "come to her senses" and trying to figure out what was in her mind. Eventually I realized that it didn't matter since she had become a person I no longer knew, and I decided that I could choose to not love this new person.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
