Without getting into a R talk with her, are your actions & attitude showing her that you are through with the old M and are not interested in pursuing the woman that she is right now? I'm not suggesting you tell her this verbally. But if she sees the new man who has a new life, that would be the best message.
You sound good, Johnnie.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
