My husband denies having an affair. He was chatting on FB in our bed, sending texts and emails to her for at least a month before he left me - they discussed our marriage and sex life at length. Niether of them see a problem in that - I obviously know better. They both claim that the feelings they had for each other only occured after he left - she reckons he asked him if he left me for her, and he said no. Still he started a relationship with her less then 4 weeks after leaving me - of those 4 weeks 2 of those he was overseas with me on holidays. How stupid does he think I am? A week after they started dating (a week after we both changed our Facebook status from married to seperated) they both changed their Facebook status to in a relationship. My husband works in IT - he not a facebook freak - this is completely out of the norm for him. Until recently she was still a FB friend of mine. I know I should have defriended her but it felt like my last connection to him (he defriended me the night I found out they had feelings for each other). The only things she would post would be about how amazing her weekend was, or pictures of a romantic lunch for 2. I feel like she was saying haha I'm now screwing your husband. As of Monday she defriended me and her Facebook account has either been hidden completely or she disabled it.


H 34, W 36
T 13.5
M 8.5
C 6yo twins
S 6/5/11
OW 7/6/11
OW moves in 9/18/11