Yes my IC is expensive - $180 a session! But I'm lucky that I can afford it. Both H and I are on good incomes. He works in IT and I have my own Accounting business. My H never once said he wasn't happy. He reckons he feels unloved and I've refused sex, not kissed him back, gone limp in his arms when he hugged me, refused to let him talk. If he had of said something earlier then I could have made an effort to show more love towards him. I now know we both speak different love languages (have you read the 5 languages of love?). He reckons he's let it cheap away at him emotionally for years and he can never see us being together again (mine you that was after he said he may regret this decision in six months, and he again a few days after saying this again said he might regret this decision in six months). From what I have read this is him trying to put the blame on me for his affair (not that he thinks it's an affair - it's just a relationship he happened to start with the woman who convinced him our marriage was crap only 3 weeks after he left me), to try and stop his guilt.
Everybody knows about H's new GF and most are disgusted.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
