Loving, Listening, and Letting Go..

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I'm not bashing you. Not at all. Like I said, I just see so many of my weaknesses in you.

What she said to you here. THIS should be your thought right now. There is some interesting information in it.

One, she knows your smart. Look at what she said. You don't have to prove it. A lot of what you said seems to do this.

You want an interesting question?

Will you be honest?

Do you believe you are smarter than her?

Now. So. She knows you are smart. But, she doesn't see you as "strong."

She is worried about you.

How you will get by without her. How you will take care of yourself.

^^^This should be your focus.

Get that job. Get yourself happy. Take care of yourself. SHOW her you CAN take care of yourself. You ARE strong.

The words you used may have shown your intellect. But like I said. She already knows this. Nothing new. Nothing she hasn't already decided to walk away from.

Let me ask you another question.

Do you see defending yourself as a point of weakness or a point of strength?

I saw that you felt compelled to defend yourself and your ideas quite a bit.

Do you attach yourself to these ideas?

What causes you to defend them to adamantly?

There is an idea here. Actions not words.

What have you SHOWN her that you have changed?

That you have grown?

That you understand her better today than when she decided to leave?