Loving, Listening, and Letting Go..

[aeolianchaos]

I don't know what "differentiation" means and I noticed you've mentioned Schnarch before - is there a particular work I can look at? This stuff really resonates with me -

He has a couple of articles on Popular Psychology's website.

He has written quite a few books - Passionate Marriage is the only one I've read cover to cover. I'm working through Constructing the Sexual Crucible, but it is much more dense and academic - I suspect it is targeted more towards other therapists than lay readers.