GB,

I can see how those theories apply to the situation.

I wonder if your W thinks that having the freedom to be with OW will actually provide her the opportunity to have the sex she wants to have? It seems like unless she forms a deep relationship with one of them (monogamous.. perhaps?) than she may have some sex, but perhaps not the sex she expects she might get. Of course, I shouldn't presume to know the kind of sex she really wants to have.

Do you think its possible that there is some other kind of thing going on here, and that the sex stuff may just be a window into part of that?


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.