I'm not in IC, but I'd love to go -- have seen C's in the past about various things and have found it to be very beneficial. Thing is, I don't make a whole lot of money, so I can't really afford it. This BB will have to suffice for now. Very glad that yours is working out for you.
If we had a law like that in the US, maybe we wouldn't be so divorce-crazy. At this point, we'll be filing for separation soon, and after that, she'll be able to D me whenever. At first, she was open to a separation in the usual sense (time to think things through), but in just a couple of weeks, she couldn't wait to get rid of me. Not sure what your H will do, but I've seen many flip-flops in my W's sentiments as time has gone on. As Michele says, it's "par for the course."
I think that if you were never given a chance to change, you have every right to be upset at your H. Me, I knew my W was unhappy, but like others have said, I didn't know that she was THAT unhappy. I think that most of the time, I just kept doing things that plain didn't work. Never thought about the potential behind choosing to do something else…. I think that if my family knew about the A, they too would think I was crazy to want W back. The thing I've been thinking more and more is that my W stood by me with unconditional love and support even though I did or said a lot of things that were hurtful to her. Now it's my turn to be unconditionally loving and supportive…
