We had about 9 days apart during the July 4th holiday and she came back seeming more agitated with me.

I'm worried that the next 10 days apart will lead to a similar drop in her attitude towards me.

I have been doing a lot of things around the house in terms of cooking and cleaning up after our kids, not to mention shuttling them around town. I'm hopeful that these contributions make an impact on her as she has to pick up the load while I'm gone.

Me: 45 W: 45
S: 12 D: 9
M: 16 T:22

Bomb: 4/20/2011
Says she moves out in July with Kids
Discovered Affair: 6/10/2011
She files for divorce: 8/18/2011