Thanks for the feedback guys. Really appreciate it!!

I think i can almost avoid the whole using in-laws help smile

Did my own car troubleshooting. My car radiator fan is broken. Now i know what to replace !! smile

But yea i'll still keep that offer by FIL in mind...just in case.

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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...