Youngster's WAW Chooses OM, Now She's in Love!

[Julz]

It's amazing that when I met my husband he was a loner. I had to ask him out. Now it's probably the opposite. Due to his work he has gotten more and more confident, and because I work from home I can deal with my clients fine, but have issues with friends.

Are you going to IC? I have had two sessions. She is very good and is open to reconciliation. I had originally set a time frame of six months, but who knows. Here in Australia you need to seperated for a minimum of 12 months before we can apply for divorce. My lawyer has actually told me as we both work divorce will cost us so make him apply for it. He hasn't mentioned divorce - just said he doesn't see it working anymore - but he did say that maybe in six months he might regret his decision. I know I need to wait this new "relationship" out - just wish I knew how long it would last.

People tell me I'm crazy for wanting him back. We have been together 14 years and life was good. I feel I haven't been given a chance - just boom one day it's over. Life was pretty good - we had already talked about what we would do in our semi-retirement in about 10 years time.