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Wish you could say more about this or ... I mean, how do you even maintain a R with someone like this?


LG,

It isn't my framework. Look up Dr. David Schnarch and his stuff - his work is very inspiring.

Here's the catch, though.. part of his theory is that we only choose partners within about 1/2 step of differentiation from our level. So.. whatever I see in my W, I better look darn hard at myself, because I'm probably not that different even if perhaps I express a different type of need for validation.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.