Met with our "family therapist" tonight - 40 minutes. The longest I've been with H since he packed up kitchen stuff on Sunday. Hopefully it will soon be the only time I spend with him.

He wanted to talk to her 'alone' about questions around S7 - I said that's fine, provided the next session is filling me in on those conversations.

She asked if there's any chance, down the line, we might be friends. I said, "He knows my criteria for having anything other than a business relationship with me."

He complained that I've said I'm actively trying to harm his relationship (relationship! hah! affair) and that I've said I hope she dumps him in an ego-crushing way.

Both are true - no point denying it. At any rate, he seemed very bitter about that, but after the humiliation and betrayal he's heaped on me, I'm not too concerned with his feelings right now.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11