Originally Posted By: Gnosis

^^^^^ THAT is what she wants. GIVE IT TO HER!!!

Do yourself a favor and think about that....

She is unhealthy. She has POOR self-image. She doesn't believe she deserves you. And you know what? She is right... because Mr Nine tails REFUSES to give her the opportunity to work FOR him and INSISTS on giving her his all for nothing.

Do you think people value what they get for free?

DAMN RIGHT ON THE MONEY Gnosis!!! Had you not said exactly this, I would have.

9, you gotta stop trying to fix the problem and let her do all the work here. Otherwise, she has nothing invested in this. She, then, can bail again down the road because it's not big deal to her. If you want to keep her long term this time, you've got to make her work for it.

And be prepared to for "I should just move the hell away" outbursts. Look at them as just another one of her many tests. Ignore it. Don't even give it credence. When she's mad, know this is working in your favor and as it forces her to work a little harder.

No pain, no gain, brother.


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- Maria Robinson

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T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
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W back: 2/2012