I don't know if I agree with you jb, about him not being done. His actions have not shown me at all that he cares about me or my kids. He's pretty much left us in the dust. Now that he has this "friend" that's he with, it's probably easier for him to pretend we don't exist at all.
Fair enough, understood. You know your H a lot better than I do or ever will. I was only speculating on why he hasn't pursued D yet. It could be financial reasons or laziness, too.
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
I've figured what's the point of holding on to so much baggage?
This is a very important realization. This is one example of how far you've come on this journey. You are traveling much lighter now. You can't run when you're carrying suitcases (There's a song with these lyrics - I didn't make that up myself, but I just like that statement)
Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl
For now, I'm just going to be.
Good for you. You'll KNOW when it's time, and it won't just last a day or two.
