someone who is very poorly differentiated and will break off any kind of alliance when confronted with themselves in a way they don't want to see. Typically this is done in the context of diminishing the other person to a point where the loss of that bond becomes less significant.
Woah. This is brilliant. This describes my BF to a "T" - this has been my entire R. Holy cow.
Wish you could say more about this or ... I mean, how do you even maintain a R with someone like this?
Anyway, I think she is being selfish and looking for forgiveness to make herself feel better above anything - even though that forgiveness only seems - potentially - to be making her feel worse, since that makes you a decent guy -
