but you wont do the same

[OnMyWay]

I'd go dark. It's helped me a lot in my switch. Kind of step away and live my life on my terms helps to give clarity. Over on ninelives thread, someone posted a thing on MidLife Crisis. It makes sense and I have had success with it in my site. This is the link http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate...d-distance.html

Hope this helps.