That's how I have been. He's asked me questions about my car and other stuff (I had a minor accident in my car last week) - but havne't answered him as I don't feel it's any of his business at present. A friend said maybe I should be friendly. But I think I'll keep on this same path at present. I agree there is no point doing anything much at all whilst he is with her. He came in last time, and will be this week as well as he has to take some more stuff from the house. But he doesn't go past the kitchen (which is just past the entry way) - i.e. he doesn't go near the bedrooms etc.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11