Harrier, I've said before that I don't know what will happen in your sitch, but I know with 100% certainty that my sitch had 0% chance of survival if I hadn't moved out. I don't know my chances now, but they are waaaaaaaaaaaaayyy better than 0. I am just as certain of that. It will suck a$$ (or eggs), and it might help.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11