Thanks for the encouragement. You are right - ambiguity means that things are not on a steady stable course right for the toilet! Any change causes some upheaval, but I don't want things to go the direction they have been going. Change is what I am looking for.
In the meantime - Gotta getta life! Gotta 180.
Best to you in your struggle!
Think about it...if you met a potential mate who was nothing but a bundle of needs, would YOU be attracted to them?
