Yea as LITB said, looks like in most states, they do prefer the 50/50 arrangement. I know it is true in mine.

While i completely and wholly agree that you gotta fight for your rights, sometimes i do wonder: If i do get full custody(which i know i would not), would my daughter end up hating me for having separated her from her mom?? Would I be able to live with that fact??. Hard choices...


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...