My W and I had some conflict last night. She was rubbing my behind in bed, last night and I recoiled. I'm ambivalent about restarting sexual relations. I'm not sure if she had that in mind. Her feelings were hurt. I suppose if I'm going to agree to be in the marital bedroom, than I need to be open to physical intimacy.
Originally Posted By: Concerned Listener 07/19/07
I think that Matilda is right in that I should pursue some level of physical intimacy. Perhaps, cuddling in bed at night would be a good start. Light touches on the shoulder or arm, may be another good way to start. I have gotten her flowers in the past, but will have to think about that.
Originally Posted By: Concerned Listener 08/16/07
I did attend the salsa venue last night with my W. We had a wonderful time.
She initiated sex with me last night at 2AM. I agreed and tried to have the experience be more than intercourse. We'll see what kind of comments I get from her today.
