The process is : Event-> Thought-> Feeling-> Behaviour.
She's totally reacting on impulse here mgm. (I say reacting because she isn't sitting down and choosing between actions, she sees one way to look at the world/you and reacts using her past patterns.
She's thinks it's rational, but she's not considering long term consequences at all. Only short term relief.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
