Most mlcers want a divorce, but can't or won't do the work. For example, your w didn't provide you with the listing of her debt.
While this may be true and with the exception of the debt, she has done all of the work. It took her a while to finally file, but she did do it.
I'm also wondering if her anger at me and the slow reconnecting with our boys is because things aren't as great with the OM as they were. I've had that feeling for a while now.
I've noticed that she can be nice as pie one day and then mean as a snake the next time I see her. I've also noticed that when I see her at her house, she looks absolutely miserable. She puts on a happy face when she is at mine.
Just posting thoughts and observations...:)
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13