My apologize Harrier. : )

I'm glad you weren't setting yourself apart.

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I've read about marriage there seems to be one theme. (among many) that is you have to have a positive view of your spouse


I like that alot.
Too often the LBSer tends to fall into the trap of vilifying the spouse, and once that happens...I think it becomes very hard NOT to stop doing that.

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My W does a pretty good job of telling me exactly where we are.


Stop asking.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet