My mom's believes in astrology a bit. So i guess when she was on a trip, she saw one. Apparently he told her that wife and I are like railways tracks. Never meet. But neither do we separate.
I dunno. Have a very uneasy feeling about this. I too sometimes believe in these things. Hard to shake off that weird feeling. Just have do my part correctly.
I did talk to my L today asking her to find out what was holding up W on her end. She said that she would find out.
Meanwhile it looks like i've become addicted to old-navy and jeans shopping. Oh well, retail therapy
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I am not a big fan of what I consider to be superstition. Railway tracks is an analogy that could be applied to any R. Pretty standard "script" for an astrologer. I would not take too much from it.
Just my personal opinion, you are in a much healthier place mentally to be without such things influencing your thoughts and emotions.
Obviously this post is based heavily on my personal beliefs about the matter, not trying to force anything on you.
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
So it looks like i am gonna soon have a big problem with my car. It is close to 150k. Now my FIL is good car mechanic and knows lots of good people. He also offered last week to help get the car fixed if needed.
Knowing the relationship i have with my wife right now, would be bad if i sought his help?. I was planning on asking him to see if he could get it fixed. I take care of the costs.
Don't know any car mechanics in my town. I know i'll get ripped off if i take it to the dealer.
help!!
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My R with my in-laws was good. Last week MIL did call up trying to find out if i was planning on totally moving on or waiting. I told her that i would wait as long as i could hold out.
FIL keeps telling me to hang on till end of the year and that everything would be okay.
Only thing i am lil worried if wife is gonna guilt me saying that her family has always been there for me and saying that i am not being inconsiderate.
Problem is that as i said, i have exactly 0 folks here in the US. Not even distant relatives.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
MK - I agree. If your relationship with your FIL is good, I don't think it's any big deal. I wouldn't worry at all about what you W may or not think. This is just between you and your FIL. You are only doing it for you. It's not tactic or any kind of scheme against your W.
