Sweetie, I am not one to tell anyone not to have hope. But I think you know in your heart what is driving this.
On the other hand, they do pop up out of the tunnel from time to time and have some touch and gos.
So, you have a decision to make. Please make it with your head and not your heart so as not to get hurt.
If you do decide to go, you know the drill. Happy, light, no pressure. Let him see the new Grr.
And most important - NO EXPECTATIONS!
I concur with Brooklyn Grr. As you know, my opinion is that you should not go on this trip. You have to let your H live his life right now so that he can figure it all out. That means that you must let him live the things that he perceives as being good... but it also means that you must let him live with the things that are he will perceive as being the negatives of choosing a life without you.
If he gets the only the good, but none of the bad... why would he return to your M?
JMO.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
