Meeting with our "family therapist" tonight. Not looking forward to spending an hour with H, but will remember to keep it cheerful and upbeat.
Suspect he's going to push for more time with S7 sooner rather than later, but I can't go for that - S7 seems to be handling things really well, but it's early days, and I have seen some changes in him - he's clingier with me, much more huggy, wants to generally "be" with me more. No acting out at daycamp or regressive behaviour (those are the two big signs), but little things that tell me we need to keep taking it slow.
Not sure H will agree, but I'm not willing to compromise, so while his agreement would be nice, it is not currently necessary.
Tomorrow will be his first overnight at his dad's, so we'll see how that goes.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11