GB:

Thanks for the feedback. She's definitely moved into a new phase. Less activity on social media, some signs that there maybe another OM or close to being an OM. Also indications that she maybe looking to have a child on her own. Through all this, I'm in as you aptly put it, purgatory. Being here, I understand why family and friends insist I escalate, but as I mentioned, I haven't let go of my M.

Yep...detachment and GAL is the best course for me now. It's difficult not "actively" working on saving my M, but I'm gaining acceptance that isn't possible at the moment.

One step at a time.....


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M: 47; W: 39
M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years
No children
Separated: 01/19/11
Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11
Wife moved: 03/05/11
Responded: 04/14/11