Can my relationship be saved, part 2

[a girl]

Went to bed early last night - the emotional stress of the drs appt wore me out.

H mailed a couple days ago asking about scheduling time with a divorce mediator (I had suggested he call, this wasn't really his initiative). I replied this morning and told him I have a lot of appointments to try to fit in to my work schedule in the next few weeks, so can we hold on this.

Not a ploy - I really do have a lot of appointments, and honestly, I can't take the stress of dealing with his issues right now.