This is why you need to get some legal protection - I don't know the laws in your state, but in some states, if there's no document *preventing* her from leaving with him, you can't stop her.
In terms of documentation, I'm not sure if my call to 911 was recorded, but if it is, that could be used if there's a court order. Also, I documented the incident/dialogue here (which is, helpfully, date and time stamped, meaning the messages couldn't have been forged unless I was some kinda genius programmer, which I'm not), so worst case scenario, I can print a copy of the posts/threads out.
Originally Posted By: a girl
Don't focus on reconciling/not reconciling - focus on what's right for your son, and understanding your rights and obligations as his father. Reconciliation will happen or it won't, but you want to be sure he's accounted for.
True that. The unfortunate thing is my wife ALSO thinks she is doing what is best for our son, so I'm quite certain if not for that reason alone, she will fight tooth and nail to keep him with her. I don't want our son to be caught in between.
