Tad, Most mlcers want a divorce, but can't or won't do the work. For example, your w didn't provide you with the listing of her debt. I wasn't surprised to read that she didn't do what she was instructed to do. However, I am very pleased that you didn't contact her about it. She's a big girl and she will need to face the consequences of her actions all by her herself. The only thing that you have to worry about is being prepared for your response. That's it.
I'm very happy to see that you are ready to go to work and it will help keep your mind focused on something else. Your children are growing up and time doesn't stand still for any of us. Enjoy every minute that you spend w/them.
The tides are changing for you and your ship is sailing in a new direction. Go w/the flow and see where it takes you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
