Devastated

[Sad_but_happy]

Julz,

The OW's x is saying your H will be back because he knows her.

The true her.

Listen, my W had an EA.

I'm sure to the OM my W was the greatest thing in the world.

And I'm sure to my W OM was the greatest thing.

But trust me when I tell you that OM DID NOT know my W. And my W did not know him.

It's easy to live in the make believe world of a A. No fighting, kids, bills, stress...

Where everything is unicorns and rainbows.


If OM knew my REAL W he would have run-4-Zee-hills!!!

I know this to be true. Because I live with my real W.


I'm not saying my W is bad or not worthy of love or that she can't find someone to love her.

I'm just saying it's make believe. At least in the moment...

Your H is living in a make believe world. As is the OW.

Stay in reality Julz. It's better here.


As for patience, you're early in your sitch.

I think a better word is to cope. At least for now. One day at a time. And it will get better!