Thanks Sandi, that makes sense.
I'm not sure what to read into it. A couple of my friends think it's because she may be wanting some attention, given I have made no contact for nearly 3 weeks. Also that she has returned from America and realizes that she is coming back to nothing here now, no family and has lost all "our friends"
Previously she has had her lawyers say that if things get worse between us, ie me calling and begging her all the time, then all contact would go through lawyers. So I don't understand why she would contact me for no reason.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011