Originally Posted By: DelinquentGurl


Can you believe I have not heard my H's voice since the middle of May?

If being dark is supposed to make my H miss me and be curious, he doesn't seem all that interested. Still waiting to hear from him regarding a text I sent 2 days ago, asking if he had any sort of idea where his head may be at.



That is a long time dg

Going dark is for YOU

it is an aid to detachment

Going dark or NC is not to get a response from spouse etc, but this is a hopeful bye product


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more