What would be your suggestions CS? Should I just completely cut myself off from my group of friends? Stop going out?

As far as sharing my W, OM won. They ramped up their time together, so I went dark on her for 6 weeks and slowly have had a few interactions. I told her exactly why I went dark too. She says she understands, but it still made her angry.

Right now I feel like I'm playing a game I can't win.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011