Naw, I never had an affair... did some serious reflecting on this and can honestly say I never even had an EA with my friend...
talked to my friend more about this thought and she concurred... definitely no affair...
There is more to it though, I've found out. Along with this accusation of my friend and I having an A... I've also found out that my W and OM are pretty much full blown...
When the kids are not with my W (apparently her "rule"), he will spend the nights over at my W's house or she will spend a weekend over at his place. Also, OM lives in a trailer on his parent's yard... long story, but basically when he and his X got together, he placed the trailer and they moved in... she had (his description) a MLC and bolted... he calls her crazy...
Anyhow, I understand that my W has completely integrated with his family...
And I think to myself... this was someone I really considered a friend... his parents are good friends with my folks... and I know them very well... and they are "good, churchgoing folk"... and OM has apparently returned to the church and in fact is chair of the church...
And this is OK with them all...? I must be the crazy one... *shrug* I have a lot of words that I would love to blurt out... but it's just not worth the energy...
And that all just brings up the thought right now... I wonder what kind of "lies" she's telling OM... and his family... and that community and that congregation... because really, I find it hard to believe there are so many people with such low morals...
I think that might be a judgment... I need to not do that...
Anyhow... I have no idea if she is just saying that stuff to justify her position or if she really does believe that I had an A... no matter, I guess...
I really have to call the L tomorrow and get this rolling...
