my h's band is playing at a "happy place" in another state this fall
it's a place we have gone more than a few times on family vacations and i had always hoped his band would be booked there
this year it finally happened and i was bummed out because of course, now we are separated and i would not go
he has mentioned a few times that he will be taking our s to this show (they play there for 2 days)
so tonight, we were skyping (he is on the other coast) and he asked me if i could come
he said it would be difficult, being out on the road, to come home and pick up our s, and them turn around and go right back to that part of the country
he also said that he thought it would be fun for me and that this way he would have some time to himself as well
so i know this is all for reasons that will make it easier on him
shocking, i know
he had also said that when i fly home, he was going to take our s to see his great gandma
i had to bit my tongue because i wanted to say "i would love to see your grandmother", as we are close
but i didn't
and by the end of the coversation, he told me that he guessed it would be ok, if i wanted to go see his grandma with them
although that might have been prompted by the fact that i had asked if she could meet us at the place where his shows are
anyway, i am a bit shocked by this, but at the same time, i should not read anything into it
because down deep, i know he only wants me there to make his life easier
i guess i am asking for help so as not to get any sort of hope up because of this
