Wawinla My feeling and personal experience is that there are different phases for WAW's. There's the initial run away as fast as I can phase. If you follow suit you'll find yourself divorced real fast. on the other hand there's the indecisive reality setting in phase. Where WAW's all of a sudden slow down in their running away. They are still WAW, and are more double dipping, doing as they please yet still not giving you freedom and emotional stability.
Most know this phase as the indecision stage, I'm not pushing towards D, but I have no interest in piecing. Sometimes they need to be prodded alongso they are forced to make a decision. Otherwise they will just stagnate. Although don't be surprised if they go out and party, and get OM's afterall you wait for them.
Slowly keep detaching, and jump towards that job. IMHO it's better purgatory.
