Thanks guys! I'm so happy in my little home I can hardly stand myself! Xh has to keep up pymts. on former house, but now I face a quandry. Insurance is in XH's name, a pickle he placed himself into. Now, with no one living in the home, the insurance could skyrocket. But that's not the topper. There is an arsonist working in the small sub-community the house is in. Mind you, lots of woods, very few people. Six places in the last two days. It makes me shiver to think about it. Two of the places he torched were an empty house and mobile home.
Do I warn XH of this? I know I'll be at fault either way, but I think he should be aware of the danger. One of the fires was on the same road as our house. Does anyone think I should take the high road and warn him of what is going on, or is it just "my responsibility"? Yes, there are still possessions in and around the house. I've been trying to clear it, but with 100+ temps, and by myself, it's been a slow go.