I posted earlier but not sure if it will be posted to the forum...
To reiterate what I said... I understand exactly what MGM is going through. I have been watching his posts for the last two weeks and felt I needed to give my testimony.
I have been in the same position before. In 2008 my W had an PA. We tried getting counseling from my pastor, attending marriage classes at the church, etc. On the weekends my W would leave the house as soon as I got home from work and stay out all night and come home the following day... During this time I was friendly and she was distant, however, we had our good days and bad days and there were even times when we were intimate, etc. However, she continued with her PA and stated for me to not get the wrong impression. She insisted, no matter what happened between us she felt the same way about me and was over our marriage and has moved on and told me to do the same.
This type of R continued for about 8-9 months until one day she said she was leaving and about 2 weeks later she packed up the house and took my S7 and S4 to live out of state with the OM. About two weeks later I lost my job. I was devastated... However, I leaned on my faith and God who carried me. (To be continued..)
