Some part of me thinks that MIGHT be a good thing to do, but mostly it seems like it would be a nail in the coffin. Maybe I'd be better off either way. Limbo sure [censored].
Now listen, that is not how you handle this situation. You have been saying from the get-go that you are tempted to talk to her, and that's a big no-no. It doesn't do anything but make matters worse.
Stop feeling this way b/c you cannot operate out of emotions....and that's what you are feeling right now.
Yes, you can be the man that draws her away from OM, but I am not going to lie and tell you that it doesn't require a lot of hard work. Right now, she's not willing to be willing. Is that reason for you to give up? That's up to you, and what "giving up" looks like to you. What are you calling giving up?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
