Maybe I'm getting confused with another person's post. I thought it was you & W sleeping in different rooms.
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I'm assuming I'm supposed to take that as a pep talk to be the guy to draw her to me and away from any OM?
PEP TALK? ME? No way mister. I don't do pep talks! You can tell me I cause despair, but I am a firm believer in reality and that's what I try to do.....give information based on reality. I don't have the talent or patience to tell grown men to hang in there...everything will be okay....and to see every little word as positive hope. If that's what you need, then I'm sure somebody will gladly hug you and pat you on the head. Nothing wrong with that....I'm just saying that that is not what I normally do. I believe a man needs to hear how it really is with a WAW. I guess it's up to him if he can take it or not.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
