There's been no regular communication with WAW. There's been an occasionally text/email, but that's it (e.g., pick up mail). Friends/relatives theorize that she's kept the D proceedings at bay, as I'm in GAJ mode in addition to GAL. The moment I secure a position, she'll pounce at the opportunity to move forward. As a result, everyone is telling me to escalate, force the issue, and move on.
I think about a fresh start, but my emotions/heart still believe that our M is worth saving.
I go through the emotional ups/downs...good and bad days. The whole sitch is surreal at times, but I continue to move forward.
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11