OK - NEW QUESTION FOR THE GROUP:

HOW CAN I WORK ON BEING READY TO VALIDATE W WHEN THE TIME ARISES??? (sorry for SHOUTING!)

I feel like I've missed out on some opportunities lately and I do not know how to work on / practice this. That's why I was going to start seeing a 2nd therapist, to focus on this. How can I work on it 'on my own'? Suggestions would be MOST helpful and appreciated!!!!


Me-44, W-38
S12, D10
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EA: 3/20/11
Bomb: 3/25/11
"I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11
Still in same house, in same bed