Kaffe, thanks again for the reality check. I have been following along with your posts and replies.

Wanting to drop the rope and move on and that starts when I'm ready. I have a DB coach call on Friday. That is where I'll start

Thanks all!
Mac

M 38
W 50
S 9, D 6
T 12 M 10
W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront
W's 2nd EA 6/2010
Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010
MC 2/2011 - 3/2011
W bomb dropped 4/2011
Nothing filed or done