Here are the facts: 1. My wife adamantly took our son with her when she moved out. 2. We may be in the same town now, but she's fixin' to move next summer (likely the East Coast) for her hospital internship. She wants to take our son too. 3. In both cases, she feels that she should be the one with primary custody of our son because she's the mother (so what?), that I'm dangerous (a porn addict), she has a bigger family network (East and West Coast; I only have my sis and BIL in TX) and she's more financially stable (because according to her I can't hold a job, and that even with her school loans, she is more financially responsible/stable than I am).