IF I was one of the ones that blasted you, I want to apologize. I'm pretty sure if I did then I didn't give you a good reason why I don't think its a good idea.
Because too much is read into babysteps.
And 'babysteps' are not good indicators. The rug tends to get pulled out from under the people who put too much stock into them.
I actually do not like babysteps. ; )
Not in your case, I recall a situation where the LBSer was so excited that her husband smiled at her, called it a babystep and was convinced that he was going to be coming home from it.
With that being said, screw me or anyone who tells you not to do something something that 1st off is not harmful to DB ideas and reconciliation, and 2nd keep doing it.
The idea that you're not a DBer is a bit unsettling, like your apart in this. I know alot of us here are floatsom and jetsom...but sometimes with a wreck its what can keep you afloat.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
