As a side note, LITB's child custody situation has given me a major scare. When I read about how the CA courts ruled in favor of his wife (despite his best efforts), it was a scary reality check for me. Our son is living with her right now (I had no control over this), and I now fear something similar happening to me. True, everybody's case is different, but I need to remember to put my faith in the Lord, as well as be prepared if and when the time comes.
But i thought if you are guys are in the same town, it should be a 50/50 arrangement right? I guess the problems come only if big distances are involved.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...